Saying the quiet part out loud.
This is a place for clear thinking in a noisy world.
I’ve spent decades inside complex systems — cybersecurity, leadership, organizations, technology, and people — watching the same patterns repeat. We avoid hard conversations. We optimize for comfort. We reward confidence over competence. Then we act surprised when things fail.
This site is where I think out loud about the things we’re often encouraged to soften, oversimplify, or ignore. Not to provoke. Not to posture. But to understand what’s actually happening — and what responsibility looks like when systems get messy.
If you’re new here, start with my latest writing:
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I’d Still Show Up If Nobody Did
If nobody read my shit, I’d still write my shit. That’s not bravado. That’s not a flex. That’s just the truth. And I know it because I’ve lived it—long before anyone was listening. The Talk Nobody Came To The first public talk I ever gave after starting FRSecure was at a big conference. This was probably 2009 or 2010. I was new to speaking, nervous…
What you’ll find here.
This isn’t a personal brand. It’s a working space.
Here you’ll find writing about:
- Cybersecurity and why the industry keeps failing despite decades of effort
- Accountability — personal, organizational, and systemic
- Leadership in complex, imperfect environments
- Risk, incentives, and unintended consequences
- Mental health, burnout, and being human inside broken systems
- Life lessons learned the hard way
Sometimes it’ll be technical.
Sometimes it’ll be personal.
Often it’ll be uncomfortable.
That’s intentional.
What this space is — and isn’t.
This space is:
- Curious, not certain
- Direct, not cruel
- Principled, not performative
- Grounded in experience
This space is not:
- A sales funnel
- A hype machine
- A place for fear-based narratives
- Interested in clicks more than clarity
I care less about being liked than being useful.
If this resonates…
You don’t have to agree with everything you’ll read here.
But if you value:
- Clear thinking over comfortable narratives
- Honest questions over easy answers
- Responsibility over excuses
You’re in the right place.
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- Read about the latest projects I’m working on
- Learn more about me
Take what’s useful.
Leave what’s not.
Just don’t ask me to pretend something is fine when it isn’t.