Life Lessons

  • The Circles

    Introduction Not sure you noticed, but people talk sh*t about you. This shouldn’t be a shocker, right? I mean, you didn’t deceive yourself into believing otherwise. Did you? Well, if it’s any consolation, I’m a victim of sh*t talking too! People talk sh*t about me a lot (probably). I hear people talking sh*t about other people all day. OK, maybe not all day, but pretty…

  • Memorial Day 2024

    Nearly 156 years ago (May 30, 1868) John A. Logan, Commander in Chief of the Grand Army of the Republic (GAR) proclaimed this day as Decoration Day to honor Union soldiers who died in the American Civil War. Since the Civil War, the total number of U.S. military personnel who have died in various wars is estimated to be over 1.1 million. This includes battle…

  • Thoughts on Diversity

    Originally posted on my LinkedIn profile. I’ll be honest. If I were adding someone to my team, I wouldn’t choose someone solely because they’re White, Black, American Indian, Asian, or any other race. I also wouldn’t choose them because of their gender, sexual preference, or who they voted for. I would choose them for who they are and what they bring to the team. I…

  • Another Visitor

    For people who don’t know, I live in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico (actually, just south in a town called Mismaloya). Living here is the fulfillment of a dream, literally. I’ll write about “the dream” in future post, it’s pretty cool! We bought our home to provide a place where employees (FRSecure and SecurityStudio) can enjoy a great vacation and hang out. It’s sort of like FRSecure’s…

  • Celebrate Juan

    A short post to start things off. I want to introduce you to someone.   This is Juan, our AWESOME maintenance guy. He works his ass off six days a week, keeping everything running smoothly in and around our home. I LOVE Juan like a brother! Today he’s wearing an “Evan uniform”, one of the t-shirts we bought him as a gift. He’s allowed to…

  • Service and Sacrifice – Happy Birthday USMC

    Today marks the 245th birthday of the United States Marine Corps (USMC). HAPPY BIRTHDAY MARINES! To the greatest fighting force on the planet. To the faithful men and women who serve our country with bravery only they can fathom. To the “Jarheads”, “Devil Dogs”, “Teufel Hunden”,  and “Leathernecks” who give all so others can have. Quick History The storied history of the USMC began on…

  • Good People Didn’t Vote For Your Candidate

    The truth: There were hundreds of thousands, maybe millions, of worthy people who didn’t vote for “your candidate”. Demonize as you will, but here’s a reminder of some things. People who voted for the other candidate are NOT bad people. Sure, there are bad apples in any large group, but the vast majority of Americans are not bad people. These people are NOT: “ill” “sick”…

  • God Showed Up to My Pity Party

    Yes, God showed up. Uninvited and unwelcomed. NOTE/WARNING: The subject of “God” is touchy for many people. I acknowledge this, and won’t go down the rabbit hole (now). I’ll preface my story with two simple points: This story isn’t about religion. This is about relationship. Two vastly different things. If it helps, I don’t like religion either, or at all. Nobody is forcing you to…

  • FACTS and OPINIONS

    They’re not the same and treating either as the other has consequences. FACT: something that has actual existence, or the quality of being actual. OPINION: a view, judgment, or appraisal formed in the mind about a particular matter. Facts seem to be in short supply, but the shelves in the warehouse of human discourse are overflowing with opinions. Opinions are easy and they’re cheap (short-term)….

  • WARNING – Foul language

    For those of you who are offended by foul language, please stop reading OR continue reading at your own risk. The Security Shit Show You knew about this, right? Well, maybe. In case you didn’t, I’ll tell you a bit about it now. NOTE: We’ve already done ten shows, I’ll post another article highlighting the shows we’ve done so far. The Security Shit Show is…